Giulio, excellent news. The system is booted up, and I have just built my first project succesfully! Ahhhh, a sine tone has never before sounded so sweet!
What ended up being the problem, was the Etcher software. I did all of your suggestions in all possible permutations and it just wouldnt boot. Then I used imgflasher, a different software and it just worked like nothing was ever an issue.
If anyone else is having similar problems, and nothing else works... try getting an SD card adapter (if you dont have one yet), use the "SD card formatter" app to format the card - to avoid my problems with drives - and then use imgflasher software to flash the card and try that.